Bad Wife

I have something to share with y'all. 

The other day...our 6 month anniversary day to be exact...the hubby and I got into a huge fight. Well, actually I should say that I caused a huge scene. It was...(gulp) definitely my fault. Here's the shameful story:

We had decided to go to a flea market with the FIL on Saturday morning. Our goal time to leave the house was 7 am, which meant that I had to wake up at 5:30 am. I woke up on time and was actually in a pleasant mood. Then, a horrible series of events unfolded:

- My hair would NOT sit right on my head

- I could not find a dress to wear

- My nail polish that I had just painted chipped off

- I was running late

My hubby was actually quite understanding of these horrible events and only once said, "Hey baby, we gotta leave soon." So that's what started my temper... bad hair, no clothes to wear, and chipped nail polish. Then, I started getting hot...like menopause hot. Sweat + already fonky hair = worse temper. 

I finally managed to get myself ready to leave (10 minutes late). My hubby was already outside waiting on me. I started walking towards the door to leave and he opened the door, saw me, and then shut it. Right in my face. Y'all...I saw red flashes and lightning bolts and chainsaws. I was SO MAD that he shut the door in my face. I flung that door open and I yelled, "How dare you shut the door in my face!!" I accidentally said a cuss word...and I never ever cuss. Ever. It was shameful. 

This was surely what I looked like...via

My hubby must have either: 1) decided it wasn't worth fighting over or 2) seen the fire in my eyes because he just walked over to the truck and opened the door for me. I stomped over to the truck and made a huge ordeal getting in. I think I even threw my purse. When hubby got in, he said, "I thought you were going to set the alarm like you always do, that's why I shut the door." 

Y'all know that moment where you realize that you are horribly, absolutely, positively wrong about something?? Yeah, I felt that. My heart sank to my feet. I think I stopped breathing for a second. The last person to leave always sets the alarm. Always. We rode in silence for about 5 minutes. That was as long as I could take it. Then, the tears started falling (from me, duh) and I apologized over and over and over. I was devastated that I had been so mean. My sweet hubby just said, "It's okay, baby, let's move on."

I made sure to give him lots of kissies. 

Then, we were back to this...thank goodness!

All of this to say...it happens to the happiest of couples, it happens to the newest of couples, it happens over the most stupid things, and it happens at the most random times. Even though I am truly ashamed of the way I acted, I never want to forget it because I never want to repeat it. I fully believe in the need for arguing/fighting among couples, but it never needs to lead to yelling, calling each other names, cussing, or anything of that nature. Those fights are hard to move on from. I can't believe that I got so mad about something SO stupid. 

Lessons learned: hubby is not out to get me. He loves me. : )

Dear sweet hubby, I love you and your easy going nature so much. Sometimes I just don't know how you put up with me. I am so glad that you do though. 

Love easily, forgive quickly, speak slowly. 

Love, love!

It's Been Six.

Yesterday was our 6 month wedding anniversary. I know everyone says this, but gosh it goes by SO FAST! Sometimes it still feels like we just got married yesterday. Marriage is everything that I ever thought it would be and nothing that I thought it would be. Does that even make sense?? 

Marriage is not perfect. It is completely imperfect...which is what is SO perfect about it. We laugh together, we cry together, we get mad at each other, and I pout...a lot. Marriage is the hardest thing that I've ever had to do, yet the thing that comes the easiest to me. I have never been happier in my life and I love my husband more today than I did on October 2, 2010. It's amazing how loves grows and deepens. 

We had an absolutely amazing weekend...we were both lucky to be off all weekend together! I'll share about our weekend later. It was full of shopping, snuggles, and delicious food. What could be better??

I'd love to know y'alls best marriage advice. Whether you are married, engaged, dating, or single, we have ALL thought/dreamed about marriage. Share with me! 

My advice:

- Your spouse HAS to come first. At all times. End of story.

Hope y'all had a great weekend! 

Love, love!!

Skype + Stuffed Animals = Fun

It's Friday and my first day off since last Saturday! Woohoo!!

So far, I have slept in until 11 am (don't judge) and eaten Reese's. I know, I'm just living the great life. My next plans get a little crazy...I plan to blog and watch Lifetime. 

My mom is in town for a couple days. My uncle is having surgery, so she is going to help watch my niece and nephew so that my aunt can take care of him. Prayers would be greatly appreciated for him! It is so great to have my mom in town...I am such a momma's girl. We went to eat at Applebee's last night with my grandma. It was karaoke night. We did not know that. Grandma did not appreciate it. Haha. 

We are going to a flea market this weekend in Texas. I'm so excited. I've never been, but I've heard it's amazing. Anyone have any exciting plans?? 

I'm off to finish my busy day. (Sarcasm) I'm leaving y'all with a picture of my last Skype with Michaela:

We are dorks...we already know. (Yes, her video is clear and mine stinks. I'm aware.)

Hope y'all have a great weekend!! : )

Love, love!!

Catch the Ball

We have a new hobby. It's called "tennis." Here is what you do:

- Throw the tennis ball against the wall of the house

- Laugh at silly puppies trying to catch it

Sounds like fun, huh??

Cashmere in action.

Look at that concentration.

Getting some air.

Who says white girls can't jump?

This fun new game leads to tired puppies, which leads to happy mommy and daddy because they sleep soundly for the rest of the day/night. They are lazy...what can I say? Wonder who they get it from?

Diesel says hello!

Cashmere says we love y'all! (Doesn't she look drunk or something? Ha!)

I'm short and sweet today. 

Love, love!!

Coming Out of the Closet

Wanna know what we do on the weekends? We clean. 

We are wild. 

This past weekend we both had ALL day Saturday off. It's the first time we have been off a weekend day together in awhile. At first, we didn't know what to do, so we just sat and started at each other. That was boring. (Joking!) We actually ate breakfast together and enjoyed snuggling and watching some tv. Then, my darling sweet hubby had to ruin the laziness and went outside to clean up dog poop, so I decided to be a sweet wife and do what he has been asking me to do for 6 months...clean out my closet. 

I may have a problem getting rid of clothes/shoes. 

Confession: I wear scrubs to work and pajamas almost every other day. I don't need that many clothes. However, when I go through my closet I think, "I love this shirt...I will definitely wear it." Two years go by and the shirt is still unworn. 

Here is my side of the closet...mostly neat and organized:

Yes, I'm a nerd who hangs clothes in color groups. 

The other side:

I see plenty of space for more clothes!

Here is my get rid of pile. Kinda small, I know. Progress is progress. 

This may sound dorky, but we had SO much fun cleaning out the closet. We found my belt drawer and I have never seen my hubby make so many strange faces. He just doesn't understand fashion. Ready for a blast from the past?? I decided to model some belts that I used to think were cool. I'm talking like 5 years ago cool. I promise that I have not worn them in the last 5 years. Please tell me that someone out there had belts like this at one time...please! (If you wear belts like this now, I apologize. Please don't hate me!)

Notice: Do not be jealous of my outfit...not everyone can wear pajamas all day. 

The hardcore blinged out and studded belt. 

The stretchy sequin belt. 

The ribbon bow belt. 

(That Cashmere is such a camera hog!)

These pictures were taken in our extra/scrapbook/craft/junk room. Please forgive the random mess. 

Now go ahead and comment and tell me that y'all used to think these belts were cool. Thanks. 

Have a great Tuesday! 

Love, love!

PS: This is basically two outfit posts in a row...Sydney better watch out!

PPS: Don't forget to enter my giveaway...it ends in just a few days!

Another Reason Lifetime Rocks

If you follow me on twitter (which you should), then you know that yesterday I was FINALLY able to watch Coming Home on Lifetime. It's a new show where men/women who are serving overseas come home and surprise their family members. I definitely recommend this show for every single person. 

It. Is. Amazing. 

It was so heart warming to watch these people be reunited after being apart so long and so sweet to hear their stories of love, life, and long distance. I was crying the entire show. Happy tears, of course. I think my hubby even had a tear or two...don't tell him I told y'all that. He will never admit it. 

Some pictures from the show...all via:

I know how good it feels to see my hubby after just ONE night of him being gone for work, so I cannot imagine the emotions that they go through after being separated for months and years. 

I want to say THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart to all those serving in the military who make huge sacrifices to keep me safe in this beautiful country. Y'all are loved, respected, and supported. I hope that y'all never feel forgotten...y'all are SO appreciated. Thank you to all of the families that send their loved ones to defend this country...I have so much respect and awe for y'all. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 

Happy Sunday! 

Love, love!

PS: If y'all see a soldier, tell him/her THANK YOU!

Late Night Delirium

It's Friday...woohoo! I was going to post a vlog today, but I can't figure out how to use my webcam yet. Stay tuned...this webcam business can only get more interesting! : ) 

I was able to blype with two of my blogging besties, Michaela and Meg, over the last few days. Funnest. thing. ever. Seriously. I don't think they wanted these pictures posted, but what is a post without pictures??

Love y'all. A lot. 

I kept them small. See? I do love y'all. : )

I have a super huge question that I need y'alls advice on. This summer, my hubby and I are going to take a trip out to California to see Michaela! (Real life blogger meet up...finally!) We have been looking at plane tickets, but tonight when I got home at 1 am, I decided that...maybe we should drive the whole way!

I think I'm delirious. 

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From where we live to where we need to go in Cali is about 30 hours and 1,900 miles. Yikes. I know. Stay with me here. I was thinking...when else ever in our lives would we be able to do this?? Plus, we can stop along the way and see some beautiful cities that we've never been to. I'm thinking:

- 1 night in Albuquerque

- 2 nights in Las Vegas

- 3-4 nights in Cali

- 1 night in Las Vegas (back)

- 1 night in Albuquerque (back)

That doesn't sound that bad, right?? We might could even somehow fit the Grand Canyon in there. Ahhhhhh. The possibilities are endless. I haven't told my hubby this idea yet. He will think I'm crazy. I kinda like road trips though. Like our trip to Branson. {plugged it} They are ALWAYS interesting and there is lots of time to bond and talk. I tried to add up the costs and it seems like it'll basically be the same. Obviously we will spend more money if we stop and do things along the way, but hey, you only live once, right??

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So here's where I need y'alls advice. What do y'all think?? Crazy or sane? Have y'all ever taken a long road trip? A cross country trip?? Could you handle me for 30 hours by your side?? ; ) Any advice??

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I seriously appreciate ANY and ALL advice, even if it's just to tell me I'm off my rocker. Maybe we could buy a trailer and bring the puppies along??

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Okay, now I'm just getting out of control. 

Can't wait to hear what y'all think! Have a great weekend!

Love, love!

PS: Have you entered my giveaway yet??

Me or Him?

I saw this couples survey over at Mr. and Mrs. Smith and thought it was super cute!

I know, I know, I talk a lot about my hubby.

Well guess what? I'm a newlywed. : )

(6 months is still newlywed, right?)

Away we go...

How long have you been together?

Together for 1 year and 6 months. Married for almost 6 months. 

How long did you know each other before you started dating?

We met in late August and started dating in early October, so about a month and a half.

Who asked who out?

He asked me...on Facebook. (#hilarious - for you, Meg!)

Did you go to the same school?

No, we grew up in different cities. 

Who is the most sensitive?

Ding ding ding, we have a winner - ME! 

What about pets?

Two dogs - Diesel and Cashmere.

{plugged my own blog...done}

Where do you eat out most as a couple?

Definitely Mexican. All. the. time. 

Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?

Jamaica for our honeymoon!

Who has the craziest exes?

Unfortunately, I think me. 

Who has the worst temper?

Another award for me! (Should I be honored?)

Who does the cooking?

What cooking?

Who is more social?

I like to be around people I already know, he likes to be around anyone. 

Who is the neat freak?

OCD = me. 

Who is the most stubborn?

Seriously, I think this survey is targeting me!

Who hogs the bed?

Neither of us. We are big "sleep on your side" people. 

Who wakes up earlier?

Him ALWAYS, unless I have to work. 

Where was your first date?

Logan's Roadhouse...a restaurant. 

How long did it take to get serious?

We knew we were going to get married within 1 month of dating. 

Who eats more?

Hmmm...sometimes that's a tie!

Who does the laundry?

We both do. I know, my hubby rocks. : )

Who drives when you are together?

Mostly him. 

Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?

Definitely him. I'm SO stubborn. It's terrible. 

Who wears the pants in the relationship?

I sometimes think I do, but he really does. I like a man in control. 

Who eats more sweets?

Another win for me. He doesn't even really like sweets. Ugh. 

So after doing this survey, I'm thinking that I'm pretty dang lucky to have my hubby!! He is amazing for putting up with a stubborn, hard headed, temper tantrum throwing wife like me! : )

PS: Yesterday I had a blype (blogger skype date) with Meg. It was fabulous. 

Until my hubby came home and asked if we were cybering. 

EWWW. 

I wonder if she'll call again?? 

Love, love!!

He Reigns

Happy Sunday! I hope y'all have had a wonderful weekend! 

With everything that has been going on in the world lately, I feel a little unworthy of my blessed and easy life. It's sad how sometimes it takes tragedy to make you realize how blessed you are. The devastation that I have seen in pictures is astounding and literally takes any words away. There is nothing that I can think of to describe the pain that people are going through. It seems like there has just been tragedy after tragedy lately. 

Lucky for us: God is STRONGER and BIGGER than any tragedy. 

Thank goodness for that. Sometimes it's hard to remember, but God is always present, even in disaster. I firmly believe that He is there and working...pray for His work to be done. I don't want to make light of anything today, but I decided that we could all use a dose of happy. Here are a few things that make me happy. I hope they lighten y'alls hearts, too!

My Savior...I'd be nothing without Him. 

Pizza. No explanation needed.

A big comfy bed. 

Friends. 

Cupcakes and pearls...yes, please! (Possible choking hazard)

Glitter. 

Babies + costumes = delightful. 

Anything Starbucks related. 

Puppies. 

Bright colored nails. 

Gorgeous dresses. 

Innocence. 

I want to just say a sincere THANK YOU to each and every single one of my blog friends. Y'all encourage me, support me, lift me up, make me laugh, and inspire me...every single day. I love y'all. 

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Love, love!