A lot of people have emailed me saying how "strong" or "brave" I was to share our miscarriage story on my blog. But really, I didn't feel strong or brave at all when I wrote it. I felt terrified and sad and really lonely, but God led me to share our story and through that I have received amazing support and love...and there are people all over the world saying prayers for us. And that...well, that's pretty amazing.
Sometimes being honest and truthful is healing and inspiring and touching...and that is my favorite part of blogging.
Sometimes being honest and truthful is healing and inspiring and touching...and that is my favorite part of blogging.
Of course it's fun to read about fashion and crafts and the latest tv shows. I have gained so much inspiration from blogging (and Pinterest). I'm inspired to cook better, eat better, decorate better, dress better...and the list goes on and on. But don't be afraid to blog about things that are "real."
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And even further, don't be afraid to let your inner feelings out...your highs and lows, your fears and dreams. We have the chance to impact other people and set about changing the world. I was scared to write about our miscarriage. So scared. But that is our life right now and that is our journey...and I'm not ashamed to admit that we are hurting and we need love and prayer. We are on this path and we are trusting in the Lord and that's all that we can do. So don't ever be embarrassed or afraid to blog about real issues.
Life is real...and it's certainly not perfect...and we all have to experience the good and the bad.
Life is real...and it's certainly not perfect...and we all have to experience the good and the bad.
43 comments:
I think it is therapeutic to write about things too. I admire you for sharing. I have had a couple miscarriages and never did a post about them. Now, I wish I would have.
I hope you are doing well and are blessed with a healthy pregnancy/baby soon@
you said it sister <3
real life stuff is part of life too! and its important to just write it down! even if later on it never gets published...just to write it down and get your thoughts out there!
happy weekending!
xoxox
I have always adored you. From the moment I came across your blog and began to follow your life story. You are this fresh air of sunshine. And even at a time when others can be falling apart you are inspiring others. And that is what is so amazing about you.
Thank you for being you, for being real, and for being the type of person that makes me want to be better.
I think you're one of the sweetest bloggers I know :)
And I'm happy that you share your life with us, the good, the bad and the ugly! It makes me feel like you're really my friend... I get to laugh with you and cry with you...
I wish you so much love and friendship and blessings!
You are simply SUCH an inspiration, Megan. After reading your story my baby fever erupted and I think I pinned all things baby... LOL. I say this because I have been fighting the what-ifs lately [about making babies]. What if we haven't been married long enough to try? What if we don't make enough money? What if something awful happens? But, you are SO right... I have to trust completely in God and if He blesses us then I should be trusting in His plans for us. I am so sick of putting society's thinking over my own desires. I absolutely adore you, Megan, and you're in my prayers every day!
This is why I love you! You are real and honest (about the good and bad), and that's why you're so amazing!
Soo true!!! I love the realness of this post!!!
(okay, firstly, i LOVE your redesign!)
and i really know what you mean with this post! i admire you for BEING real with your blog...it says so many good things about you for doing so :) it's definitely something that i try to work on though!
I don't have much to say after that deep post, but awww, and I would say you are brave! A lot of women don't like to share personal things like that but sometimes it's better to share because you gain strength from those around you who support you through difficult times. :)
Amen girl! Well said!
Love that scripture. I have it on my bullentin board at work and it helps me and makes me smile everytime I look at it. You are real and it shows through your blog and you might feel scared but it def doesnt show. God has def used you and it shows through your blog. When I need some reassurance of my faith I can always count on that through your blog. I really needed to hear this today.
I love that you are blunt. people can learn and relate to people like you who are open and honest! prayers your way, because i've been there and it's never an easy thing to go through.
I love this. Too true.
Sometimes real posts are the best ones! Some of my favorite posts are the ones that made me cry. Life isn't always peaches and cream like a lot of people make it look. I'm still thinking about you and your family.
I totally agree with you. Not that I always follow this advice, but I have felt compelled to talk about our situation as well. It's so sad to me that miscarriage happens behind close doors. To me, God gave us those babies and called them home for a reason. I feel very led for our baby's life to have a purpose, even if it's connecting with others, mentoring women in a similar place, etc. Otherwise I fear his/her life had no point, and I KNOW that is not how He works.
AMEN! I was just telling a blog friend how refreshing it is to just let it all out sometimes. It's therapeutic, and the encouragement and kind words from others make me feel like I'm not alone in my struggles :-)
I appreciate your honestly sweet lady :-)
I love the realness of this post my friend, thinking of you <3
Keeping it real is def the way to go. Stay strong and keep your head up. If all else fails, snuggle with puppies. That always makes me feel better! :) My puppies are the BEST snuggle buddies.
Isn't it strange where in the moments when you feel the weakest and in the most pain, you're actually showing all of those around you how strong you are and inspiring them to be better? It's in times of loss that we find out our true colors (and true friends). I'm so glad you shared with all of us, and I'm always here for you and proud to be your friend :)
Well I admire your bravery to tell your story. So many people are too afraid to tell it. I'm sure it was very difficult but I agree that it's therapeutic to share. And on a lighter note...I love the new blog design! :)
And this is why I love your blog and you! Thanks for keeping it real!
This is one of the reasons why I love your blog. Thanks for being real and sharing your feelings with all of us.
I'm so sorry to hear about this. I will definitely be praying for you guys. I can only imagine what you are going through. But I know God will take care of you.
Love you, Megan! I'm so sorry I'm only commenting now but I was reading the posts and thinking of and praying for you. I don't know what to say that would be right but just that I support you!
You are a strong person, dear. What you went through wasn't easy-and you wrote about it which is going to help others who deal with it, I'm sure. Trust me, you're a very strong and brave person. <3
Thank you for this post. I love the fun side of blogging that's all linkies and giveaways, but even more than that, I love sharing life with people.
Allyson
http://cupcakescandycanes.blogspot.com
Yes, absolutely! When I blogged about losing four people in a month and then another shortly after it was very freeing to write and so good to have the support of my blog friends!
I think its very important to blog all emotions. Its so therapeutic for 1 and it keeps you real. With yourself and others.
Its true, life isn't always the happy posts many feel they have to write all the time. Times are tough and hard and its ok to share your heart. :) So I agree 100% with you!
I hope you both have a nice weekend.
Emily at Amazing Grapes
Wonderful advice! Thanks for this reminder!
Much Love,
L
(allglorious-within.blogspot.com)
Being truthful and honest is great. I often feel like so many people (myself included) post the fluff stuff because they don't want to read about negative or unhappy things. But sometimes you just need to let it out, because you don't know who is out there reading your blog who needs to read exactly what you're writing about. Your last paragraph is right on the spot...so true :)
You're amazing Megan, I look up to you SO much as a blogger and as a woman of faith!!! <3
Thank you for this post. I was just thinking along the same lines a little while ago after reading some of the comments from my last post. Being 100% real and honest is a good thing. I have to remind myself this all the time because I tend to write about the easy stuff, not the hard or truly important stuff. Plus it's therapeutic (which I'm sure you've realized)
Gah, you're so right, and yet the concept of being completely transparent on my blog is something that is really challenging for me. And it's not because of my blog friends, but more because friends, family, and acquaintances also follow along.
I think this is a great thing for me in the future, thanks for the motivation!
Hope you have a wonderful weekend Megs!
xxx
Jenna
Fake stuff = just that...fake. People want real. Most people, anyway. ;) Excellent post, Megan, and I agree 100%.
I love that verse. Quite perfect for today. :)
Make it a great weekend! If you need a chuckle, see my post today. It's crazy. ;)
Adding myself to the lengthy list of people who love and agree with this post. :)
It's one of the main reasons I put up my site was so that I could tell the real story of what is going on in my life as I battle my illness. If I'm not being real then why do it at all! Think of the people that you impact by telling your story.
i agree! i have so many "unpublished posts" that may never get published but that i just want to get out. it's so hard sharing "real life stuff" sometimes.
I just read your post, and wanted to send my prayers and hugs your way. It takes a lot to share all of those feelings and emotions, and I hope by writing it out, it has brought you some peace. Thanks for sharing.
Megan you are amazing! I am so glad you did share your story, and I hope it helps you heal. We're here for you!
You can't be brave without being terrified. When you do something that you are terrified to do, that is real bravery.
If God brings you to it then he will most definitely help you through it. You are such a brave, spectacular woman. Blogging isn't just about the link-ups and happy times but about sharing life and all of it's happenings as well. You have so many followers that will love you through the hard times as well.
-Anna
asweetsouthernmess.blogspot.com
i have written a couple scary posts! but it felt good to let it all out in the blog world, and knowing oyu have so many people put there who care helps so much! <3
Wise words friend. Thanks for sharing! I will continue to keep you both in my prayers.
God's strength and love definitely did shine through you as you wrote that post -- even if you yourself didn't feel brave or strong. you are an inspiration and i know there are so many women who can relate or may relate one day to your story... thank you for sharing sweetie. xo
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