Monday, May 7, 2012

Three Months

Three months ago today, we walked into the doctor's office for a routine appointment and walked out with our lives forever changed. We never asked for or expected this to be our path in life, but here we are regardless. And oh how God has used this to grow me. He is my strength when all I had was weakness, my hope when all I saw was despair, my triumph when all I felt was failure. 

And every single good thing that has come from this, has come from God. We did not overcome this, HE overcame this. We did not prevail, HE prevailed. We were not strong, HE was strong through us. He has taken a tragedy and used it for His good. He has strengthened our faith and our marriage. And that's not to say that it takes any of the pain or heartbreak away, because it doesn't. There are still days that I can't stop thinking about it and days where the tears win, but I don't think I could go through it if I didn't know that God could use it for His good. 

So please know that whatever you are going through, good can come from it. God can restore and revitalize, renew and redeem. There is nothing that He cannot work for His good. He will be there and walk with you through everything. He can heal the brokenhearted. 


I seriously appreciate all of the love and support that y'all have offered up to us over the last three months. I never expected blogging to help me through this, but it has, and that's because of y'all. So thank y'all for everything. And we are doing good these days. We are trusting in the Lord's ultimate plan and we know that it is a perfect plan. He is so good, y'all. I hope y'all know that. He is good. 


56 comments:

Alicia Stucky said...

Words to live by. Glad to see your making it through with such strength and optimism.

A Babbling Brunette said...

Yes He is! I love the peace God has given you!

Tami said...

You are so right Megan and I'm 100 percent sure that He is using you to spread this message. You are amazing and such a great example to all of us! Hugs, friend!

Jess - PrettyPhysicist said...

You are strong in your faith, which is an inspiration. Through your pain and healing, you've helped me grow and helped me come to terms with everything. I couldn't be more grateful for our friendship.

Liz said...

Such a beautiful post!!! I love how you guys have let God use you in this time. Still praying for you!!!

Cait said...

you're stronger then you know meg :) thanks for being such an inspiration to all of us bloggers out there xo

Marie said...

You really are an inspiration Megan. Much love x

Charissa Steyn said...

Beautiful words girl!! Keep on meditating on that truth- God is good! Thank you for this encouragement today- I also needed it! I love that God is in the redemption business and He can work all things together for our good!!

Pamela said...

You are such an inspiration! Love the canvas!

Nicole said...

So thankful for the way the Lord is using your circumstances. The glory is His. Love you.

Elissa said...

your faith shines through you Megan! (even through the computer screen!) Continued prayers are with you!

-Elissa

Rebekah said...

You're in my prayers sweet friend! I love that you're letting God work in you during this time. I can't imagine going through it, but you're faith is amazing!

Teenage Bride said...

I just wanted to stop by and say thank you so much for your beautiful words of inspiration and support on my latest post.

I feel absolutely terrible that I somehow missed the news. I cannot tell you how sorry I am or how much I admire you for your strength in the Lord.

Right now my heart hurts for you and even as I type, tears come to my eyes especially because my own daughter is playing at my feet.

My soul however rejoices for you because you have the strongest faith and the most magnificent love in the Lord and that is something that few of us can experience no matter how hard we try.

I am praying for you and sending warm thoughts of love and peace your way.

xxxooo

Much love and God bless.

Heather said...

God is good.

The Yarbrough's said...

Such a good post! Glad ya'll are doing well. Everything happens for a reason and GOD knows best. HE IS GOOD!! ALL THE TIME!! Keep trusting in him. :)I love that canvas. So glad you share this with us....something you say could open someone's eyes about God.

Michaela said...

I'm so happy you turned to the Lord in this horrible time- you are a testament to His goodness and trusting in His plan. God is always faithful.

Colleen said...

There is a verse.....the lord is close to those whose hearts are breaking.......shortly after I read yours I too suffered a miscarriage and mourn to this day.....I blogged about my memorial tin which helped.....I have something tangible I hold on those hard days.......if you haven't heard it, there is a song, before the morning.....fabulous song!gladyou areleaning on the lord and finding strength

Katie said...

So true. Bless your heart for this post..much needed. You are a wise woman Meg :)

Courtney B said...

Oh sweet Meg! What an amazing, positive post! I look up to you SO much! I am so incredibly grateful for God and all the GOOD that He offers us!

Samantha said...

What a great post :)GOD IS GREAT!

Raeven said...

So very true. God is good ALL the time! I'm praying for y'all, and I truly believe God will use you and your story for His glory and honor.

Allyson Butler said...

This is such a sweet post. I'm so glad that the Lord has been carrying y'all through this.

Mama and her boys said...

You are a woman of strength! xo

the girl in the red shoes said...

You are such an inspiration. Sending you a big fat hug today girl!

Neely said...

Im having a terrible time right now and I really needed this

Amanda said...

You have such an amazing perspective on life! You're really an inspiration :)

Meg {henninglove} said...

His words can sustain us through even the most difficult of trials and in the end, He is always there wrapping us up in His arms of love

poptartyogini said...

Thank you for the reminder. Sometimes I forget that I don't walk alone and there's always someone with me to shoulder the burden and celebrate life's exciting moments. I'm so glad you're finding support thru the blog world. I'm pretty happy to be here myself.

lori said...

megan, you are such a strong and inspiring lady!

Mrs. Miller said...

You are in prayer, especially today.

Lauren said...

Praise God that He is so good! and able to do immeasurably more than we could ever hope or imagine!

Sara said...

God is good. It's hard to accept sometimes, but He knows what we can handle and what is best for us. Love and prayers to you. <3

Melissa said...

Aw, Megan. I'm sorry you ever had to go through this. My thoughts are with you today.

Meghan said...

Thinking of you today sweet friend!!

Lindsey @ Running Down A Dream said...

What a testimony! I need that sign in Notger color! You are still on my prayer list, sweet girl!

Katie said...

still praying for you lady!

Alyssa said...

You are such an inspiration, Megan! I needed this post more than you know! :)

Ashley said...

Chills and more chills. I am so proud of you for taking something so difficult and turning into something inspirational for all your followers. I don't even know how many people probably needed to read this today. You are so sweet and I just love reading your blog so much. Keep your head up pretty girl :)

It's A Love Story said...

It is so true. You dont know what God makes something happen there is always a reason for it.

XoXo
~Elizabeth
http://theelegantlifeofe.blogspot.com/

Raquel said...

I love this post! You are such a positive and beautiful person, inside and out!

Alexis Kaye said...

you're amazing Megan! :)

Angie said...

God is always so faithful & especially in the darkest hours. Much love to you :)

Haley W. said...

Thanks so much for these beyond amazing words of wisdom. He is all that we need!

Praying for your entire family on this difficult day.

Rach @ This Italian Family said...

He is walking with you, holding your hand each step of the way. Love to both of you today.

Holly said...

So sorry to hear this! Thanks for reminding us that we can learn from everything and get through anything too. I needed to read this post tonight...going through my own trial.

Brittany TYD said...

I was on an unintentional blogging hiatus around this time and missed that news. I am so sorry for your loss. He does have such a good and perfect time for things, even though we don't understand it.

Praying for you guys.

Amanda said...

I love your honesty, vulnerability, and raw writing. You inspire me :) praying for you. Xo

Janna Bogert said...

Beautiful my love...{{Hugs}}!!

Fran said...

You're stronger than you realize and loved by so many people, know I still mean every word I said in the card I sent you. *hugs*

Lisa @ MMT said...

Your faith is inspiring to me! I love that you lean on God and your faith to get you through this and that it only makes you stronger.

Gail @ Sophisticated Steps said...

Beautiful, Megan. Very inspiring to many, I'm sure of it.

God is never early and He's never late. His timing is always perfect. And His plan is always better than what we could plan for ourselves.

Holly said...

So beautiful. You are amazing and a true inspiration <3

Pegster said...

He is good indeed. I love that you share your story with the world, truly inspirational. Continue to be strong.

The Heart Of A Woman said...

I love you Megan!

Ashley said...

Your posts are so heartfelt and inspiring! You are so strong.

Tiffany said...

The way you have shared your story and your faith has been amazing. There is that verse in the Bible when Joseph is talking to his brothers in the Old Testament after they figured out he was alive and he told them, "You meant it for evil, but God meant it for good." I love the idea of that, even in the darkest, hardest places in our lives.

~Tiffany
http://tiffanyd22.blogspot.com